About the Comforting Words Site

When those around us face tough times, we often find ourselves at a loss for words. We may fear we will say the wrong thing and stay away or, we may hurt someone unintentionally by saying or doing the wrong thing. Loss is very isolating and everyone needs support if they are to fully grieve and
recover.

Comforting Words was created to help you help others who are facing difficult experiences, loss, and grief. You won't have to be afraid of saying or doing the wrong thing. You will read real-life examples of the types of things that helped others through their grief and creative ways you can provide help, support, and comfort. You'll also find lists of things you should avoid saying so you won't hurt someone already
experiencing loss.

Comforting Words is a companion resource to "How to Say It When You Don't know What to Say." The book provides suggestions on oral, written, and nonverbal communications for anyone dealing with the full range of life cycle losses and experiences including: illness, death of an adult, death of a child, birth of a stillborn or death of a newborn baby, suicide, infertility, miscarriage, death of a pet, mental illness, separation, divorce, job loss, adoption, physical disability, violence, terrorism, natural disasters, legal or criminal problems, financial difficulties, personal disappointments, and caregiver responsibilities. The site provides more anecdotal material to help you help others.

Ms. Kaplan can be contacted via email at rkaplan@wordsthatcomfort.com