The poppies evoke such a special time in my life that I usually find a visible place to display them long after the holiday. And when I see one around the house, it brings back vivid memories of my father and the Memorial Days we shared while I was a little girl.
My dad was a veteran of World War II and after his discharge was active in the local Veterans of Foreign War (VFW) post. Our local VFW sponsored our town’s Memorial Day parade. I never got to watch the parade; I got to participate in it.
Each year, my father drove a car with a veteran from World War I. It was a tribute for the veterans but also special for me as I got to ride in the back seat of the car with my siblings. Our small town put on quite a parade and I felt fortunate to be part of it.
After the parade, my father took me and my two siblings back to the VFW post. We’d play softball out back and there was always a cookout. I don’t know why, but my mom stayed home. This was a special opportunity for us three kids to have time with our dad in what nowadays we would call quality time. Years later, it was all the more poignant after his early death.
So every Memorial Day, and Veteran’s Day too, I search for the poppies. I love to share my story with the veterans I meet and it’s important to support all the veterans who give so much for our country, even in with a small gesture.
Those simple poppies make me feel a sense of patriotism along with a connection to my family roots. I get a little red flower to wear for the day while paying tribute to the veteran I knew best, my dad.
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